They’re Working a Job They Don’t Like
- Joanna Talbot
- Jun 8
- 2 min read
Why It’s Normal — and How You Can Help Them Find Meaningful Direction

Your child landed a job after college — but it’s not what they dreamed of. Maybe they’re:
Feeling bored or unchallenged
Doubting their choice of major or career path
Struggling with low energy or motivation
Wondering if this is all there is
It’s normal to feel worried when you see them unhappy at work — and you want them to find something fulfilling.
🧠 The Reality: Early Career Jobs Are Often Not the Dream Job
Studies show that the majority of recent grads start in roles that don’t align perfectly with their passions or long-term goals.
This is part of the exploration phase — a necessary step to:
Build skills
Understand what they like and don’t like
Clarify their values and strengths
Gain professional confidence
It’s a process, not a failure.
💡 What Coaching Offers Your Child in This Phase
Coaching helps students:
Reflect on what they do enjoy and value in work
Identify transferable skills they’re gaining
Explore alternative career paths or side projects
Manage stress and avoid burnout
Build a realistic plan for change — even if it’s slow
❤️ How You Can Support Them
Instead of pushing them to quit or stay, try to:
Listen without judgment
Encourage self-reflection
Help them celebrate small wins
Remind them it’s okay to pivot or explore
Share stories of successful career shifts
🙌 When They’re Ready for Change, Coaching Is Here
We guide grads through this tricky middle stage — helping them turn dissatisfaction into clarity and purposeful action.
📞 If your child feels stuck in a job they don’t like, coaching can help them explore new possibilities.
Book a free consult to learn more.
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